Tuesday, 31 May 2016

Do 10 Things To Change Your Life Forever

“Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future”
~ John F. Kennedy

The one constant thing in our life is change.We cannot avoid it and the more we resist change the tougher our life becomes. We are surrounded by change and it is the one thing that has the most dramatic impact on our lives. Change has the ability to catch up with you at some point in your life. There is no avoiding it because it will find you, challenge you, and force you to reconsider how you live your life.
Change can come into our lives as a result of a crisis, as a result of choice or by chance. In either situation we are all faced with having to make a choice – do we make the change or not? I believe it is always better to make changes in your life when you choose to rather than being forced to.
We however cannot avoid the unexpected events (crisis) in our lives because it is these events that challenge our complacency in life. What we can control when we are experiencing these challenging events, is how we choose to respond to them. It is our power of choice that enables us to activate positive change in our lives.
Acting on our power of choice provides us with more opportunity to change our lives for the better. The more opportunities we create to change our lives the more fulfilled and happier our lives become. Here are 10 things that we can do in our life that will change our life for the good, forever:

1. Find Meaning In Life

Spend some time trying to sort out what is important in your life and why is it important. What is it that we want to achieve in our life? What are our dreams? What makes us happy? Our meaning in life gives us purpose and sets the direction of how we want to live our life. Without meaning we will spend the rest of our life wandering through life aimlessly with no direction, focus, or purpose.

2. Create A Dream Board

When we were children we would daydream all the time. We were skilled at dreaming and visualising what we would be when we grew up. We believed that anything was possible. As we grew into adults we lost our ability to dream. Our dreams became hidden and once we started to feel like achieving our dreams was impossible.
A dream board is a great way for us to start believing in your own dreams again. Seeing our dreams every day on a dream board brings our dreams to life. Our dreams become real and we start to have believe in the possibility of achieving these dreams.

3. Set Your Goals To Achieve Your Dreams

Once you know what is important in your life and what your dream life looks like for you, you need to take action and set your long-term, medium, and short-term goals. It is acting on these goals that enable you to achieve your dreams
Remember your goals may change. Always be flexible with setting and achieving your goals as things in life change and your goals need to reflect these changes. It’s the small steps that you take that create the momentum for change to happen in your life.

4. Let Go Of Your Regrets

Regrets will only hold you back in life. Regrets are events of the past and if you spend all your time thinking about the past you will miss the present and the future. You cannot change what you did or did not do in the past, so let it go. The only thing you have control over now is how you choose to live your present and future life.

5. Choose Some Really Scary Things To Do And Then Do Them

This is all about you choosing to step out of your comfort zone. Public speaking is one of the most frightening things anyone can do. I was petrified of public speaking however, I knew that I wanted to be a motivational speaker. So firstly I joined community radio program in my college to overcome my fear of public speaking. My first program  was terrible, my knees were knocking and my voice was trembling, I broke out in a sweat and I couldn’t stop shaking. But I did it and the feeling of completing the program, even though it was terrible was great. I chose to keep going and now I earn a as a motivational speaker and radio program presenter. I am still nervous when I get up to speak and present however it is an excited nervous and I love it.
Make a list of scary things that you would kind of like to do but are too afraid to. Put a plan in place and then go do them. Never stop doing scary things because if you do your life will become one of complacency and comfort.

6. Start Living A Well-Balanced Life

Our health does not remain the same. Our physical, emotional, and spiritual state changes, as we get older. What we can control however is how we feed our minds and our bodies. Living a balanced and healthy life builds our resilience to the physical changes of our body. Exercise is the best way in which we can attain a positive and optimistic attitude toward life.
Living a healthy, well-balanced life with lots of exercise is a lifestyle choice that without a doubt will give you a happier more satisfied and fulfilled life.

7. Face Your Fears

Its easy to ignore our fears and hope that they will go away. Unfortunately, it does not work like that. If you want to change your life, learn to master your fears so they can’t control you any longer. Our fears are only thoughts in our minds that are not real but over time we have become to believe that they are true. It is our fears in life that stop us from living our life to the fullest. We know when our fears are controlling our lives because we feel discontent, dissatisfied and unfulfilled.
Once we face our fears we take back our power to choose how we want to live our lives and when we do this we change our lives forever.

8. Accept You

The only person who is going to create change in your life is you! and to create that change you have to like you. There will be times in your life where you will face rejection and there will be people who will not like you that much. Accepting who you are and loving yourself helps you to move forward in your life. Putting yourself down all the time and wishing you could be better will only lead you to a life of unhappiness and discontent.
Find your courage, love yourself, and step out and do something crazy. Don’t worry about what anyone thinks or whether it is the right thing to do. In your heart if it feels right, act on it and go create the life you love.

9. Live In The Moment

Many of us tend to think that the grass is greener on the other side. Often, we get to the other side of the fence we find that this is not so. The motivation to change our lives comes from our desire to be happy. We are often so busy focusing on our pursuit of happiness that we miss the joy of actually living in the moment. Our desire to have happiness in our lives is a desire of a future state not of the present. We become so consumed with all our problems and discontent in the present we miss the precious beauty of the moment.
Sitting on the beach eating an ice-cream with your best friend or partner is a moment of happiness. Appreciating and showing gratitude on a daily basis is experiencing happiness in the moment. Helping those in need brings joy and happiness to us. This is what living our life in the moment is all about – don’t miss these moments because you are too busy focusing on your pursuit of happiness.

10. Experience The Joy Of Learning

Each time you learn something new you gain more knowledge and with more knowledge comes more confidence. Learning helps us to be more adaptable and flexible to new situations. Learning encourages us to be more creative and innovative in our thinking and we are therefor more comfortable with the unknown.
Reading books is a great way for us to learn. To fully embrace the joy of learning, never stop reading nor searching for more knowledge. Learning gives our life meaning and this is what makes our life worthwhile.
You have a choice to make as to how you want to change your life. Choosing to act on these 10 things will, without a doubt change your life forever. So what are you waiting for?  Go do these 10 things now!,,,
Have a great Life Ahead........

Saturday, 21 May 2016

Don’t Ask For The Way...Just Make one

Because when you do, you’ll get lost.
The more you ask for the way, the more you’ll lose confidence in your own inner compass.
When you ask for the way, you’re going to hear many different opinions. Many different ways. And many different thoughts.
Only to be left with hundreds of different maps. That might or might not get you where you want to be.
And when you’re left with hundreds of different maps, with hundreds of different blueprints and recipes, how the hell do you even know which one is the right one for you? How do you know which one applies to you?
Right, you don’t know. And probably never will.
So instead of asking for the way all the time, instead of collecting dozens of different maps, try to listen more to that inner compass.
And be ready to accept the fact that taking the wrong exit every once in a while is part of the game.
It’s part of calibrating that inner compass of yours to get you where you want to be. Where you have to be…......So,  Stop, Think, Go ahead.....and achieve whatever you want....

Thursday, 12 May 2016

Some Remarkable Thoughts Can Motivate You to Achieve Anything in Life

Words have power — and the ones in this post are guaranteed to challenge the way you think and perhaps even change the way you live. They have inspired me to choose life, persevere and live life to the full.
Don’t give up on yourself just yet, your most amazing life is still ahead of you.....
  • You must have a compelling response for: why the hell am i doing this?  -Elana Carter
  • Give yourself permission to think and act without approval.
  • Choose to do your most amazing work without anyone’s approval. Bet on yourself!
  • “If you don’t have room to fail, you don’t have room to grow. — Jonathan Mildenhall
  • Positivity trickles down through the ranks. Negativity spreads faster, like fire.
  • Failure is not a sign of personal incompetence. It’s just one experiment that has gone wrong. Move on the next level.
  • All you ever have to decide is what to do next. It really is this simple.
  • You don’t rely on data or facts. You push the impossible.
  • You have everything you need to build something far bigger than yourself. ~Seth Godin
  • If you genuinely want something, don’t wait for it — teach yourself to be impatient.- Gurbaksh Chahal
  • Finished last’ will always be better than ‘Did not finish’, which always trumps ‘Did not start.’
  • Growth begins at the end of your comfort zone.
  • Change for the better; don’t change for someone else, change for yourself!
  • If you truly want to change your life, you must first change your mind.
  • Passion is about why we do what we do. Not what, how or when.
  • “Dare” might sound a bit over the top, but really it’s a gentle warning. Dare, but tread lightly. Dare, but know you’ll face stiff resistance at times.
  • Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.
  • You have three choices in life: Give up, give in, or give it all you’ve got.
  • ‘Finished last’ will always be better than ‘Did not finish’, which always trumps ‘Did not start.’
  • Unless you try to master something beyond what you already know, you will never grow.
  • Most great things in your life won’t happen by chance, they will happen by choice.
  • No matter how many mistakes you make, or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.
  • Do not wait until the conditions are perfect to begin. Beginning makes the conditions perfect.
  • Remember, being completely terrible at something is the first step to being pretty darn good at it.
  • What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
  • The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists. It rewards people who get things done.
  • Forget all the reasons it won’t work and believe the one reason that it will.” — Unknown
  • A setback is a setup for a comeback” -T.D. Jakes
  • Do or Do Not. There is no Try — Yoda.
  • Don’t wait to be chosen. It’s far more interesting to bet on yourself and find the guts you need to produce, the one who says ‘go’.
  • “Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — Lolly Daskal
  • “Your problem isn’t the problem. Your reaction is the problem.” — Anonymous
  • Don’t be subject to the tyranny of “how things have always been done”. Find your true north and push past the default.
  • Almost everyone can sprint. The road to mastery requires consistency. Everything meaningful in life is a marathon.
  • If you pursue your dreams long enough, compounding takes effect. Momentum will surge. Don’t give up just yet.
  • Don’t invest in a career. Build a life. Take your dreams seriously.
  • If you commit to nothing, you’ll be distracted by everything.
  • “Decide what you want or someone else will.
  • You can’t learn in school what the world is going to do next year. — Henry Ford
  • Give a damn. Many damns. More damns than anyone.
  • Progress is the ultimate motivation.
  • “Life is inherently risky. There is only one big risk you should avoid at all costs, and that is the risk of doing nothing.” — Denis Waitley
  • “The most important thing to remember is this: to be ready at any moment to give up what you are for what you might become.” — W. E. B. Du Bois.